Even before the boom with tantric and erotic massages for women really started, there were already some providers of "couple massages". But what exactly should one think of them? In fact, there are different ways how such an experience can take place. In my remarks I will start from a heterosexual couple who have known each other for some time and are open for erotic experiences outside of their own four walls. So it is about a tingling experience and not about a typical couple massage like from the last Thai vacation, where you just lie next to each other in a room, get a Thai massage and leave again.
In order to make sure that both partners will have fond memories of the visit, it is important to think about some things beforehand. In particular, you should consider who is massaging and touching whom and how.
Who massages whom?
Do you let yourself be massaged by two women? Or by a man and a woman? Or even just one person? The latter tends to be the cheapest option, but it usually means that the masseuse becomes more of a teacher and instructs the couple how to massage each other. It can also lead to such a scenario if the couple does not want to allow themselves to be touched intimately by a stranger. But perhaps it is also possible to agree on a mixed form. It is therefore important to discuss your expectations and limits with the masseuse and/or masseur before you start. And let's be quite direct: if you as a couple do not automatically receive a short introductory talk, it is better to go somewhere else.
Feeling warm hands
If you end up naked on a lounger in a fragrant room, darkened, perhaps with a few candles, you can enjoy the tingling in your stomach. It won't take long and you will (hopefully) feel warm hands on your body and, depending on how the introductory talk turned out, also the partner's familiar hands. In any case it is the time to let yourself go, to let go of moral aspects for a short time and to go on a sensual journey together.
Is it allowed to touch the masseuse during the ritual? The only clear answer is yes, if all participants agree. This is also best discussed in advance.
By the way, if you have the feeling that you have to persuade your partner too much to visit you, it is better to leave it alone and indulge yourself. But if both are on fire, a couple massage could become one of the most beautiful experiences...
